Grandma

It feels like the last few years have been non stop for both Ken and I. There is a good amount of Good and Bad but as I look back its pretty much equal. We both feel like we can never catch up though. there is no time to catch out breath and just relax. After I had Kaylee it took about 11 months for life to feel settled and we felt relaxed in our new normal but ever since I found out I was pregnant with Michael life has been going full steam!! This has been extremely hard for me because I like to plan and organize and so far nothing has gone as planned. Which I understand and half expect. These past few months have been the hardest though. I have hit my max point and there is still no break in sight. 

This past week grandma ended up going to the hospital which was scary and when we first got there she was really scary for me and to top it off my aunt Janet was out of town.  Luckily the found out what was wrong with grandma and was an easy fix and she will be going home today. I am still not ready for her to die.  Lewis and I were talking the other night when she was first admitted and we both feel she is our last parent alive. Its bad enough that both our parents dropped the ball and did not raise us and both died so young we are going to be lost without grandma. We both have our own families but we think of her as our home and safety net. For me I can call and talk to her about anything and she will listen. Plus she is my only help with Michael and Kaylee. On Sundays after church she will watch one of them so I can do my shopping or anything else that needs to be done. During the week she helps me so much with Michael. She works with him in PT OT and Speech a lot. Sometimes I think more then I do. These past few months she has been working on pointing and he is slowly starting to do it more and more. She also helps me when he has his appointments. I make them at the girls nap times so I can just take Michael.

I think Grandma being in the hospital affected Michael the hardest though because he spends the most time with her especially one on one. The last few days he will take a book to grandmas chair and complain and it anyone tries to sit in the chair with him he throws a fit. i wish there was a way to explain to him what was going on. He looked for her all over the house yesterday and cried a good 5 or 10 minutes when he could not find her. 

I am just happy she is going to be okay but this just reminded me that she is almost 92 and that she could die much sooner that I am ready for. But I am also reminded that I am so blessed to have had her in my life and for this long. I am also thankful that she got to meet my children and I know for sure Kaylee will remember her and I hope that Michael can too.